If you want to know more..I am Jax
- Jax Mendes
- Nov 21, 2024
- 4 min read
For those that don't know me...I'm Jax
I’m a full-time online life and business coach, passionate about guiding women, parents of teenagers, and teens to embrace their limitless potential. But beyond my professional life, I’m a mom to five amazing kids, a daughter to incredible parents, a sister to two younger brothers, a friend to many, and an active member of my local community.
If you had told me years ago that I’d become a mom to five children, rebuild my life after divorce, and shift from a high-powered corporate career to life coaching and neuropsychology, I would have laughed—or perhaps cried. Back then, I was a career-driven perfectionist, seeking validation from achievements and external recognition and meticulously ticking off life’s checkboxes.
But life had other plans.
When Life Throws You a Curveball
In my early years, I was told I couldn’t have children after a difficult battle with cervical cancer. Then life surprised me—not once, but five times. Falling pregnant on contraception within six years was a shock to my overachieving, meticulously planned life. Add to that a divorce, financial stress, and the demands of single parenting, and I was left feeling overwhelmed.
Motherhood didn’t just challenge me—it broke me open in ways I could never have anticipated. I was caught in a constant struggle, trying to be the perfect mom while juggling a career. In the process, I lost sight of the joy and beauty in the chaos.
Burnout and the Wake-Up Call
After 22 years in corporate roles, working for multinationals, I reached a breaking point. The burnout I experienced was more than emotional—it was physical, spiritual, and all-encompassing. Something had to change.
In the midst of it all, I discovered entrepreneurship and began studying neuropsychology. These shifts weren’t easy, especially while raising five kids, but they offered me something I hadn’t felt in years: hope and a deep calling that came from within, not from the external world.
The Shift That Changed Everything
Over time, I realized that I didn’t need to “fix” or “reframe” myself.
Beneath the chaos of my psychology, my past, and my constant striving, I was already whole. I was perfect. I was flawless.
This realization didn’t come from books or courses (though my studies certainly helped). It came from life itself—motherhood, hardship, and learning to trust my intuition. It came from letting go of control and learning to truly love my kids—not as projects to manage, but as unique individuals on their own journeys.
Empowering Women, Parents, and Teens
My mission now is clear: to empower women, parents, and teens to unlock their limitless potential and create lives filled with joy, freedom, and connection.
For Women
If you’re struggling to balance work, life, and personal growth while yearning for freedom, joy, and something truly new, you’re in the right place. I’ve walked this path before, and I’m here to help guide you in creating a life that aligns with your dreams, one that fills you with passion and fulfillment.
For Parents
Parenting teens can feel like an overwhelming maze of moods, communication struggles, and societal pressures. But it’s also a time of immense opportunity for growth—for both you and your teen. I work with parents to help them connect deeply with their teens, foster mutual respect, and create a foundation of trust that strengthens their relationships and transforms family dynamics.
For Teens
Teen years are filled with both challenges and immense potential. I help teens build resilience, find their voice, and live authentically. With three teens in my home, I understand their world, and I also remember the struggles of my own teenage years. My mission is to empower them to step into their power, develop confidence, and thrive as they shape their futures.
For Families
When parents and teens work together with intention and understanding, the transformation is profound. Teens gain the support they need to flourish, and parents rediscover the joy of connection and shared growth. Together, we create a foundation for lasting harmony and a brighter future.
The Joy of Unbridled Freedom
As a lifelong horse lover, I’ve come to associate freedom with unbridled joy—running wild and free, untamed and limitless. For many years, I lived like a tightly reined horse, afraid to let go. But motherhood, with all its chaos and beauty, taught me to laugh, to embrace imperfection, and to find joy even in the mess.
Laughter became my greatest ally, carrying me through sleepless nights, teenage drama, and the pressure of studying for a second degree in neuropsychology while raising five kids. Yes, I cried, but laughter reminded me that life, in all its chaos, is worth celebrating.
What I’ve Learned
The most profound lesson of my journey is this: love changes everything. Learning to love my kids—and myself—has transformed every aspect of my life. It’s deepened my faith, enriched my relationships, and made me a better leader, businesswoman, and human being.
This transformation didn’t happen overnight. It took intention, hard work, and countless mistakes. But it was worth every step.
Consider( like I did)... trying something different... and let the magic do the rest:)
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